Early marriages

During a life at each person should be three purposes, which it should execute. At the beginning it is a choice of a vital way, and profession, creation of a new family and also to provide own children. Creation of family the most responsible choice, which is demands realizing of all importance of such step. But in the young age people cannot choose their road rightly.
According to statistics of 60 % of all marriages lead to divorces, and each fourth woman brings up children alone. Just as has shown social interrogation each third marriage, is marrying of young people in the age of from 17 up to 21 years. That proves immaturity and not comprehension of importance of creation of family.[1]
At teenage age the young men and the girls dream of ideal attitudes and create illusions in relation to marriage. In spite of the fact that the love is the most raised and magnificent feeling, at the wrong attitude to serious things, it can negatively affect a life of young people.
Psychologists of many countries, including the United States and England approve, that early marriages consist owing to two motives. The first is that teenagers, trying to escape from a former life, are covered in marriage. The second reason is immaturity and a sight at the world in " pink glasses ". As young people expressing themselves: "the marriage of convenience".[2]
In most cases early marriages, the young pairs, disappointed in home life, have the right to accuse only themselves. In a consequence, breaking mentality, come to an idea on divorce (what not the best way avoidance of a problem). Presently there are numerous consultations on home life where addresses millions young people annually.
Early marriages always mean partial, or full dependence on relatives as in most cases, young men pairs no an opportunity to provide themselves independently. Young people assume big responsibility creating their family. Basically they are students who have an opportunity to work partially, that presently do not give confidence of an opportunity to provide family enough. Unless is it not pleasant to live with confidence in the future and confidence that your family will be always in a prosperity! At early age it almost impossible.
The most tragic result of early marriages is upbringing children in the defective family. In fact it is a wound in heart of the child for all life. Anybody, except native parents cannot replace to the child that atmosphere of the present family. In a consequence these children cannot create the high-grade family, not knowing and not having felt, that means to have the present home.Having negative consequences, the percent of early marriages continues to grow with the big speed. Having analyzed a situation and having placed priorities, each person should make in the life that unique choice, being guided by experience of the senior generation and listening to the heart.
[1] http://www.rol.ru/news/med/news/06/09/12_002.htm
[2] http://www.medlinks.ru/article.php?sid=22304

Corruption

How about corruption concept?
Almost each citizen of Kazakhstan country knows this concept. Where our generation slides? Around a deceit, gossips, and only money ruling. Where education and feeling of mutual aid has gone?
This question was always actual, but recently, became one of widespread. Our society slides in a greater rubbish pit, will get out whence very difficultly, or it will be impossible.
Where look, everywhere bribes, achievement of success, going on heads, and it is impossible to present itself as a person, without rich uncle. Our universities (if it is possible call them as university) have come to a limit. Professors already in opened ask a bribe, for a successful passing examinations. According to students’ words, it is a normal thing. Professors do not suffice for a life or it is just a simple law of a human essence, when even if you have, it always not enough that you have. What reason for study, receive a degree, when all can be got, having money?
Such disorder has begun rather recently. Before, in Kazakhstan there was one of the best educations, in all the USSR. But corruption first of all depends from a society. If there is a demand on corruption, also the supply will be accordingly. It is necessary to search for the reason of the disorder, first of all, in a society, than in yourself. In each of us the egoist thinking exclusively sits. But also there is one more quality which is inherent in all Kazakhstan people, naturally it is laziness. To struggle, from which it is little bit difficult, but it is possible.
Our state has already started to undertake some measures on elimination of corruption. But it will be insufficiently, for elimination of this huge problem. Students already, frankly speaking “have hammered” both for study, and for parent what to speak about the government. Nobody in forces to change they’re thinking. The belief, religion can affect only. In Kazakhstan not all things are bad, in fact each person has freedom, including freedom of belief.
Despite of all conditions in a life of the Kazakhstan society, the hope dies last. This is opinion, but everyone can be mistaken.