Early marriages
According to statistics of 60 % of all marriages lead to divorces, and each fourth woman brings up children alone. Just as has shown social interrogation each third marriage, is marrying of young people in the age of from 17 up to 21 years. That proves immaturity and not comprehension of importance of creation of family.[1]
At teenage age the young men and the girls dream of ideal attitudes and create illusions in relation to marriage. In spite of the fact that the love is the most raised and magnificent feeling, at the wrong attitude to serious things, it can negatively affect a life of young people.
Psychologists of many countries, including the United States and England approve, that early marriages consist owing to two motives. The first is that teenagers, trying to escape from a former life, are covered in marriage. The second reason is immaturity and a sight at the world in " pink glasses ". As young people expressing themselves: "the marriage of convenience".[2]
In most cases early marriages, the young pairs, disappointed in home life, have the right to accuse only themselves. In a consequence, breaking mentality, come to an idea on divorce (what not the best way avoidance of a problem). Presently there are numerous consultations on home life where addresses millions young people annually.
Early marriages always mean partial, or full dependence on relatives as in most cases, young men pairs no an opportunity to provide themselves independently. Young people assume big responsibility creating their family. Basically they are students who have an opportunity to work partially, that presently do not give confidence of an opportunity to provide family enough. Unless is it not pleasant to live with confidence in the future and confidence that your family will be always in a prosperity! At early age it almost impossible.
The most tragic result of early marriages is upbringing children in the defective family. In fact it is a wound in heart of the child for all life. Anybody, except native parents cannot replace to the child that atmosphere of the present family. In a consequence these children cannot create the high-grade family, not knowing and not having felt, that means to have the present home.Having negative consequences, the percent of early marriages continues to grow with the big speed. Having analyzed a situation and having placed priorities, each person should make in the life that unique choice, being guided by experience of the senior generation and listening to the heart.
[1] http://www.rol.ru/news/med/news/06/09/12_002.htm
[2] http://www.medlinks.ru/article.php?sid=22304